Loving different race

It's all begin with just a "play love" and it's turn up with truth love feeling. She know that this is not a right thing to do and to continue the relationship. Even though all friends told her that she done something stupid but she still do it. She is the type that easily get jealous and angry, she want someone that can control her and tolerate with her, understand her and never give up on her no matter what she do. She happy with the guy because the guy understand her and always make her happy.

The relationship must keep in secret to everyone because stereotype people will judge this relationship. For the family, totally this will be the big issue for her and the family may cut off the family relationship with her. 

She is trying to avoid him and create some problems between them so that the guy will hate her and left her, that's what she want now. Even though this what she wanted but inside her heart, she feel very sad and depress. She want her relationship approved by everyone but that is impossible. So what can I do to help her??